STEPS THAT YOU CAN TAKE DAUGHTERS
OF GOD TO OVERCOME VULNERABILITY
1.  SAFEGUARD AND PROTECT YOUR HEART FROM AGGRESSIVELY, CUNNING MEN. (GO
TO PROVERBS 4:23)
DO NOT GIVE INTO SWEET SOUNDING WORDS OF MEN. THEY ARE
DESIGNED TO SEDUCE YOU INTO SEXUAL IMMORALITY (SIN). EXAMPLE: WORDS SUCH
AS "BABY YOU KNOW I LOVE YOU. WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN ALL MY LIFE. YOU LOOK SO
SWEET AND NICE. YOU LOOK SO TASTY. YOU ARE SO SEXY, OR
WHAT'S UP BABY. GIRL YOU KNOW YOU THE ONE. GIRL YOU GOT
IT GOING ON. YOU'RE SO FLY, YOU KNOW YOU'RE FINE RIGHT,
GOT ME SWEATING GIRL. CHECK IT OUT DOLL BABY, YOU KNOW
I BEEN LOOKING FOR A GIRL LIKE YOU CAUSE YOU KNOW I'M
READY TO SETTLE DOWN RIGHT, IT'S LIKE I AIN'T ABOUT ALL
THE GAMES AND ALL THAT. CHECK IT RIGHT I NEED SOMEBODY
WHO'S GOING TO BE THERE FOR ME.
HE'S LYING! DON'T LET
HIM MACK YOU AND PLAY YOU.
(PROVERBS 2:6-15)

2.
 SET SOME BOUNDARIES OR SOME STANDARDS IN YOUR LIFE
BASED UPON THE WORD OF GOD THAT WILL HELP TO KEEP YOU
FROM FALLING PREY OR BECOMING A VICTIM TO THE TRAPS OF
THE DEVIL.
(1 THESSALONIANS 5:22-24, 2 CORINTHIANS 6:14-18,
ROMANS 6:23, 1 CORINTHIANS 3:16-17, 1 CORINTHIANS 6:9-11,
1 CORINTHIANS 6:18-20, ROMANS 8:5-8, 13, GALATIANS 5:16-26, ROMANS 1:28-32)
YOU
MUST TELL YOURSELF AND REMIND YOURSELF EVERYDAY THAT I HAVE STANDARDS
SET IN MY LIFE AND I WILL NOT BE OVERCOME WITH EVIL.
(ROMANS 12:1-2, 21)

3.
 STOP GOING AFTER GUYS JUST BECAUSE YOU THINK THAT THEY ARE CUTE AND
NICE. (PROVERBS 11:22) LEARN TO GET MARRIED TO JESUS FIRST, HAVING INTIMATE
WORSHIP AND FELLOWSHIP WITH THE LORD FIRST, THEN SEEK THE LORD FOR YOUR
HUSBAND.
(JOHN 16:13-15, ISAIAH 34:16)

4.
 DON'T SHOW YOURSELF TO APPEAR TO BE TOO OPEN AND FRIENDLY WITH MEN.

5.  DON'T LET YOUR DESIRES AND WEAKNESSES BE KNOWN UNTO JUST ANYBODY
INCLUDING OTHER FEMALES OR SISTERS IN CHRIST, BUT BE LEAD BY THE SPIRIT OF
GOD WHO TO GO TO FOR COUNSELING AND PRAYER.

6.  DON'T BE AFRAID TO INTENTIONALLY HURT THE FEELINGS OF AGGRESSIVELY,
CUNNING, SEXUALLY HARASSING, SWEET TALKING MEN. IN OTHER WORDS, REBUKE
THEM OR DISS THEM FAST AND IMMEDIATELY SO THAT THEY WILL KNOW THAT YOU
ARE NOT INTERESTED IN THEM.
(JAMES 4:7) THE DEVIL WILL KEEP SETTING YOU UP IF
YOU KEEP GIVING INTO THAT AREA OF WEAKNESS. IT'S TIME TO BE STRONG.

7.  WHEN YOU DO FINALLY MEET SOMEONE, DON'T BE SO QUICK TO GIVE THEM YOUR
MONEY, GIFTS, AND ESPECIALLY DON'T BE HAVING SEX WITH THEM.
(HEBREWS 13:4)
DON'T EVEN LET HIM HUG ON YOU AND KISS ON YOU.
(1 CORINTHIANS 7:1-2) IF THAT
RASCAL ISN'T YOUR HUSBAND, DON'T EVEN ALLOW YOURSELF TO FANTASIZE ABOUT
YOU KNOW! DON'T EVEN ALLOW HIM TO TOUCH YOU AT ALL IN ANY WAY. TOUCHES
AND SOFT WORDS IS THE BEGINNING OF SEDUCTION, BECAUSE HE JUST WANT TO DO
IT ANY HOW. DON'T BE DECEIVED, IF GOD SENT HIM TO YOU, HE WILL WAIT UNTIL
THE TWO OF YOU GET MARRIED TO EACH OTHER THAT IS.
(OKAY! ALL RIGHT NOW).

8.  STAY IN THE WORD AND KEEP YOURSELF PURE. ABSTAIN FROM SEX AND SEXUAL
LUSTFUL DESIRES UNTIL YOU ARE MARRIED.
(PROVERBS 31:25-26, 1 PETER 2:11)

9.
 DON'T COMPROMISE ANY OF THESE STANDARDS, BECAUSE SATAN IS WAITING TO
STEAL FROM YOU, DEVOUR YOU, DESTROY YOU, AND EVENTUALLY KILL YOU. DON'T
LET HIM DEFILE YOU ANY MORE.
(JOHN 10:10, COLOSSIANS 2:8, 1 PETER 5:5-8)

BONUS:
 DAUGHTERS OF GOD, DON'T ALLOW YOURSELF TO CONTINUE FALLING INTO
THE SAME OLD TRAPS OVER AND OVER AGAIN, BECAUSE JESUS DESIRES BETTER FOR
YOUR LIFE. HE LOVES YOU ENOUGH THAT HE WOULD EVEN USE ME TO WRITE TO YOU
TO EXPOSE THE LIES AND TRICKS OF THE DEVIL. SATAN WANTS TO DEFILE YOU, AND
THEN PERSECUTE YOU, AND THEN CONDEMN YOU WITH GUILT. IF YOU HAVE FALLEN,
THEN REPENT AND GET BACK UP. MAKE A DECISION NOT TO FALL DOWN AND DO THE
SAME OLD THINGS AGAIN. RESIST HIM, STAY PURE, GET IN THE WORD OF GOD, AND
KEEP THE FAITH SISTER; AND MAY THE GOD OF PEACE (JESUS) BLESS YOU AND KEEP
YOU A-MEN.


          WITH KINGDOM LOVE,
                     
          YOUR BROTHER IN CHRIST,
                              
          RODERICK GRIMES



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